How Can I Improve My Relationship With My Husband

improve relationship with husband

​Are you wondering "how can I improve my relationship with my husband"? Are you tired of break ups and hurt feelings?

Relationships can be one of the most wonderful things in a person’s life if they're healthy and one of the worst things if they are not. Many people have difficulties with having a lasting marriage due to trust issues, temper issues, fear, insecurity, and so much more...

According to statistics, there are many marriages ending daily when they deserve a chance to work and succeed. Some ended due to lack of trust, some due to fights. Many even end simply because the relationship has become boring and repetitive.

In order to keep a marriage going strong, both people have to work at it or the relationship will get nowhere at all. Below are 5 very easy tips to revive a failing relationship:

Tip #1. Change how you do things

It's always a great feeling to know your significant other inside and out, but sometimes a little change can really spice things up.

By changing something as simple as your dinner routine, weekend routine, or bedroom routine, you'll see a big improvement. Every relationship needs excitement sometime or another so try to add that whenever you can.

Tip #2. Practice communication skills

This is a big one for many couples. Communication is one of the most important factors in a relationship. If you cannot communicate your feelings with your significant other, than something is wrong. Work on talking to each other as much as possible.

If your feelings are hurt, make that known. If you enjoy a particular something, be sure to tell him. Talk about everything and anything with your partner because this is what allows you to grow.

Tip #3. Accept him for who he is

In any marriage, there is going to be something that your husband does that drives you crazy. It happens to us all. By accepting him for who he is, you'll learn to give and take and thus grow together as a couple.

Remember to weigh out the negative things with the positive things. By letting your partner know that you accept him no matter what, you'll grow much closer.

Tip #4. Spend time together

Life can get busy for us all but it's still very important to take the time to be with your husband one on one. You want to spend quality time together as much as you can.

Maybe you can plan a date night where you put everything to the side, get dressed up, and go out to eat. Or maybe you want to rent some movies and have a night in cuddling on the couch.

Be sure to have a night where you turn off your cell phone, ignore the calls, have a babysitter in to tend to your kids so that you can just focus on your partner. This is the only way you'll continue to get close and grow as a couple.

​Tip #5. Never stop trying

​In many relationships, people get to the point that they just stop trying. After you've been together for a long time, sometimes it just feels natural that way.

However, this is where many marriages fail. It's always nice to dress up in your partner’s favorite outfit and try to impress him once in a while. Remind him what it was he had loved about you from the start.

​So remember to make changes, communicate, practice acceptance, spend time together, and never stop trying. This is how I improve my relationship with my husband and I've found it to be very effective. By following the simple steps to spice things up with your partner, you just might realize that you've found the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.

To your happiness!
Stella 🙂


Hi, welcome to! In the picture, you see my husband, Jeff and myself (Stella). We have been married for over 20 years and I wish to share my experience of how we're able to maintain our love for over 30 years (including our dating days). I'm a mum and my passion is to help other married women nurture a loving marriage as well as build their confidence through self care and self love. You can find out more about us here.

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